Every human being was given a virtue: the ability to choose.
Anyone who fails to use this virtue transforms it inti a curse, and others will choose for them.
Every human being has the right to search for happiness, and by 'happiness' is meant something that makes that individual feel content, not necessarily something that makes that makes other people feel content.
Only the following items should be considered to be grave faults:
not respecting another's rights;
allowing oneself to be paralysed by fear;
feeling guilty;
believing that one does not deserve good or ill that happens in one's life;
being a coward
-Paulo Coelho
